Dear Ps. Sunday
I just want to say a BIG THANK YOU personally for the teachings on women. Today when you were about to mention the reason why some women were single right now, I was all ears, waiting for an answer I have never heard before… and there it came – “…. It is because you have not found a man who has recognized and appreciated your uniqueness…” Tears were running down my face and I exclaimed, ” At last am delivered….!”
Next month I will be turning 40, am still single and a virgin (am currently taking a course with Pst. Charles Uche Emmanuel to write a book about this). I became a Christian at age 12 and all my life the reason for my singleness that I have been hearing from my parents, relatives, pastors, friends, etc have been:
1. You are cursed – recently a cousin sent me a series on witchcraft teachings by her pastor , which she thought would be a blessing to me. I responded frankly that they would not add value to my life, and gave her some examples of the teachings that bless me – yours… she never replied!
2. Under an evil covenant – (my Dad confirmed that in order to get protection, he ‘traded’ me, his elder daughter to some god… so I believed this for a long time) – I have been to all deliverance services, without number, sown seeds, even changed my name to get rid of the curse, etc)
3. You don’t wear make-up
4. It’s because of the way you dress, you don’t use tight-fitting clothes, etc (a RCCG pastor told me this)
5. I need to go to the gym – meaning am too fat
6. Am too educated, and now that I want to do a PhD?
7. You don’t smile all the time
8. You are not social
Well…. I came to believe all these reasons all my life until 2013 when I started listening to your audio teachings.
No one has ever told me the only true reason until today! I wept because of the hurt buried within me that I did not even know was still there, even though I have embraced my singleness as a gift from God and am now focusing on my purpose (thanks to your teachings).
By Esther Kuganja
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